Those of you who are fortunate enough to have been to Thailand, or know of someone who’s been, will be very aware of the catchphrase ‘Same same, but different’ It refers to the counterfeit industry, but is also a profound statement.
I live in a culture that is obsessed with equality. That is fine, I believe that all people are equal as we are all made in Gods image, but where culture is going wrong is that it is trying to apply sameness where the Bible tells us that while we are equal, we have differences.
To keep things current, take gay marriage. The government is currently looking at ways to redefine the legal boundaries of marriage so that couples of the same gender can also be called legally married. Homosexual relationships are different to heterosexual relationships, so should they be treated the same? (I’ve expressed my views here, so if you want to address that, please do so with that post)
Take another example. The NSS recently wrote to the Scouts complaining that because you have to profess a faith that it is excluding those who don’t believe. The Scouts say that it is open to people of all faiths/races/cultures. The NSS want an option for those with no faith. What they are saying is that it isn’t equally inclusive, therefore it is unfair.
Even the Gospel has the juxtaposition of inclusiveness v exclusiveness. Jesus said that all are welcome into Heaven (inclusive), but to get there you have to go through him (exclusive)
I’m all for equality – don’t read me wrong, but we do need boundaries and rules for inclusion, otherwise, like my favourite mug says, you will be unique, just like everyone else.
To be a premiership footballer you have to possess extraordinary skill on the pitch, to be a politician you have to be elected and ideally of upstanding character, to get into university you have to have good grades and can prove you’ll work hard. Do these rules for inclusion make it unfair for those who don’t play football or wear a drab suit or go to uni? No, they are there because a minimum requirement is essential for the individual and the organisation, to maintian a standard. It is totally fair.
If secularists had it their way, there would be total equality in all things, and to take it to it’s logical conclusion, we’d all be totally equal with no allowances for our differences, we’d be one step closer to being Cybermen – all the same with no personality, no discernable differences, no longer unique. Celebrity culture would disappear (not necessarily a bad thing), no award ceremonies, no recognition of special achievement or difference at all. No Olympics, no Oscars, no exams, just blanket equality. Fun times.
But the reality is that we are different, yet we are also equal. And we know that deep in our heart. A great racing driver isn’t better than a master carpenter. A CEO isn’t better than a housewife. The Prime Minister isn’t better than a road sweeper. They are all different. Equal and different. And this is fair.
One example that I know of personally of equality being taken too far is one friend (white) saying to another (black), “I don’t see you as black, I just see you as Harry*” meaning that the difference of race wasn’t a boundary to her, to the point that she didn’t see his race anymore. He remarked that while he understood the sentiment, he was still black. It is part of his identity, his race informs his cultural heritage and views on certain things. They are equal, but different.
By all means promote equality, but having rules and boundaries is good, good for a safe and happy society and good for self worth and identity.
The sooner that westerrn culture can accept that we are different, and that it is okay to be different, the sooner that true equality will come. Some people are fast runners, some excel at maths, others are very nimble of finger with crafts or can write beutiful poetry as to make even the hardest heart cry.
All are different.
All are equal.
This is okay.
What do you think? Have I got it wrong?
MrTheKidd
*name changed for my protection
- What I think about: the redefinition of marriage (www.mrthekidd.wordpress.com)
- Christian Group Shows Up To Chicago Gay Pride Holding Apologetic Signs (http://www.practikel.com) {In no way do it endorse any comments on this post, nor do they reflect my beliefs – the post itself however, is something I whole-heartedly agree with and do advocate. I am not responsible for external links etc etc}
- The F-word (www.whiskymouth.wordpress.com)
- Question: Christians, Same-Sex Marriage, and Active Faith (jdylanparker.wordpress.com)
- Equality. (jordieshaw.wordpress.com)